A Man Will Do (Almost) Anything For This …

appreciation

Energy flows where appreciation goes

#lovetip
When was the last time you gave your SO a sincere compliment or expressed your appreciation for something specific? Generic thanks has very little value to a man – he wants to know EXACTLY what he did to make you happy, so he can do it again!

Yes, believe it or not, a good man really wants to make you happy but if he’s got it wrong in the past and been criticised, he’ll be wary of what he does now. Men love to “win” – set him up for success by telling him clearly and specifically what you appreciate him for and then watch how hard he works to get your admiration and appreciation again.

What’s the last thing you thanked your husband or partner for? Share with us in the comments 🙂

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  1. Such sound advice. And so logical. I don’t know why I didn’t see this before. My man needs to know specifics–especially now he’s declining. He keeps asking what I’m referring to. It drives me mad to have to repeat what we were talking about. But he needs to know. I’ll bear that in mind when we talk in the future. Hehe. That sounds as if we’re not talking. We are, but not when I’m on the computer and he’s in another room

    • Isobel says:

      So glad you found it helpful, Francene 🙂 We do sometimes expect them to be mind-readers but it’s probably best not to, we have very different minds!

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